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Post by VinCat❤Destined on Jan 29, 2013 2:40:22 GMT -5
Oh boy he's hot!! Nice eye candy! LOL!
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Post by my2girls on Jan 29, 2013 12:36:24 GMT -5
I like Bridget Regan as an actress. They gave her such an annoying role. I felt so annoyed when she yelled at the top of her lungs...Vincent? Vincent Kellar? Did it even occur to her that Vincent was fine without her in the last 10 yrs? To me, Alex is third wheel....not Cat.
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Post by oa on Jan 29, 2013 19:02:58 GMT -5
yep just like evan, well as max put it that way!
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Post by VinCat❤Destined on Jan 29, 2013 20:47:44 GMT -5
Earlier today I was having a small chat with my hubby about Seeing Red..He actually let me put on the END scene of the show cause I asked him what would possess a man to be such jerk? Well this is his POV on that scene> When he appears on the balcony he seemed nervous..My hubby said he saw it cause the dude as he calls Vincent his his hands in his pockets and that his body language was tense..SO when Catherine approaches him and sees she's holding something behind her he tries to break the ice by being playful.(Men tend to do this when they know they eff up and don't know how to start a convo) Once he sees the picture he looks smug my hubby said that was a reaction to seeing that she had enough interest in HIM to take the photo. Now here is the part that got me ticked with HUBBY LOL HE said that when she sees the photo and says "I just wanted to know him" and he answers that that guy was still in him somewhere that Catherine didn't have to come out with "Not when your with her"... Hubby went on to say that this is where a MAN and Vincent gets defensive. His reaction was "Is this a way to dodge you and me?" And then of course "It's complicated" made things worse....She's breaking up with him isn't she? <--HUBBY <- ME Hubby stated that Vincent got defensive when he FIGURED OUT that the situation wasn't going to end up good but in the <edited> house. That everything Vincent said about him being a bad boy and not being an option was a way to let Catherine know that SHE is the one who's afraid to move forward in the relationship He said that he was trying to say that being with her didn't change just cause her EX came in the picture. He went on to say that it was HER that pushed the situation to where it went...and that it was Catherine that put the relationship on hold so he can pursue Alex. My hubby says Vincent is hurt by Catherine's reaction and pushing away..hence the teary-eyes (WOW Jay had me there) My hubby says the reactions that Vincent had the body language..the nervousness..was spot on for a guy.. So does this change anything about Vincent being a JERK?? Maybe not but ALL men are at one point or another..Now if they make amends and fix and ask for forgiveness maybe and maybe then we'll cut Vince some slack!! As my POV I can't be mad at him..the look of devastation when he saw Catherine was pushing him away was HEARTBREAKING
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Post by oa on Jan 29, 2013 21:04:06 GMT -5
well i have to thank you and thank your hubby for me for giving us the mens side of this episode and how he would have read it if he where vincent! its good to see how guys read the situation different from what we girls see it.
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Post by VinCat❤Destined on Jan 29, 2013 21:13:27 GMT -5
well i have to thank you and thank your hubby for me for giving us the mens side of this episode and how he would have read it if he where vincent! its good to see how guys read the situation different from what we girls see it. You are welcome! As you can see my BatB obsession goes into family discussions too! LOL
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Post by oa on Jan 29, 2013 21:14:49 GMT -5
at least your fam lets you discuss it, my fam just rolls their eyes at me, tell me im obsessed and change the subject... i still love them though!
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Post by VinCat❤Destined on Jan 29, 2013 21:17:11 GMT -5
Yeah well my hubby ended the discussion with "Tell them to get a room! They both can USE some!" LOL
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Post by oa on Jan 29, 2013 21:45:56 GMT -5
hahahahahahaaaa not to sound like a bad person but typical male response!
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Post by VinCat❤Destined on Jan 29, 2013 21:48:25 GMT -5
hahahahahahaaaa not to sound like a bad person but typical male response! Exactly! But *we* both know by watching the show that the sexual tension between them is HOT! I mean it's in their eyes for God's sake LOL
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Post by oa on Jan 29, 2013 21:52:15 GMT -5
cant wait to see if they move past staring and sighs!!! now THAT will be really HOT!
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Post by VinCat❤Destined on Jan 29, 2013 21:57:47 GMT -5
cant wait to see if they move past staring and sighs!!! now THAT will be really HOT! Yeah I'd love to see holding hands,hugging each other, gitty lovey convos things of that nature..to show their relationship IS moving forward.
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Post by Suzieq ❤️ Beastie on Jan 29, 2013 22:56:19 GMT -5
Earlier today I was having a small chat with my hubby about Seeing Red..He actually let me put on the END scene of the show cause I asked him what would possess a man to be such jerk? Well this is his POV on that scene> When he appears on the balcony he seemed nervous..My hubby said he saw it cause the dude as he calls Vincent his his hands in his pockets and that his body language was tense..SO when Catherine approaches him and sees she's holding something behind her he tries to break the ice by being playful.(Men tend to do this when they know they eff up and don't know how to start a convo) Once he sees the picture he looks smug my hubby said that was a reaction to seeing that she had enough interest in HIM to take the photo. Now here is the part that got me ticked with HUBBY LOL HE said that when she sees the photo and says "I just wanted to know him" and he answers that that guy was still in him somewhere that Catherine didn't have to come out with "Not when your with her"... Hubby went on to say that this is where a MAN and Vincent gets defensive. His reaction was "Is this a way to dodge you and me?" And then of course "It's complicated" made things worse....She's breaking up with him isn't she? <--HUBBY <- ME Hubby stated that Vincent got defensive when he FIGURED OUT that the situation wasn't going to end up good but in the <edited> house. That everything Vincent said about him being a bad boy and not being an option was a way to let Catherine know that SHE is the one who's afraid to move forward in the relationship He said that he was trying to say that being with her didn't change just cause her EX came in the picture. He went on to say that it was HER that pushed the situation to where it went...and that it was Catherine that put the relationship on hold so he can pursue Alex. My hubby says Vincent is hurt by Catherine's reaction and pushing away..hence the teary-eyes (WOW Jay had me there) My hubby says the reactions that Vincent had the body language..the nervousness..was spot on for a guy.. So does this change anything about Vincent being a JERK?? Maybe not but ALL men are at one point or another..Now if they make amends and fix and ask for forgiveness maybe and maybe then we'll cut Vince some slack!! As my POV I can't be mad at him..the look of devastation when he saw Catherine was pushing him away was HEARTBREAKING This is so insightful. Your hubby is very honest and objective about the ending scene. I can appreciate his rationale for why Vincent acted that way. He deflected.........I think we all do that when we are in the "wrong" and not ready to admit it. I know I do that to my husband sometimes. But, Catherine is right to acknowledge what she saw between Vincent and Alex.........and for her own peace of mind, she knows he has some lingering feelings there for Alex......and if he ignores them it won't help THEIR relationship. She is "letting him off the hook".......and at the end he realizes she is right, and he gives Cat that teary look. It still doesn't excuse Vincent for lying and not telling Cat when she asked him about Alex and for calling Cat a "handler". He even looked guilty and hence, why many of us are calling him out as a jerk! I will watch the next episode and give Vincent the benefit of the doubt. But if he acts all giddy and careless with Alex.......he will deserve a verbal smack down from me.
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Post by Reyna on Jan 29, 2013 23:03:25 GMT -5
This is so insightful. Your hubby is very honest and objective about the ending scene. I can appreciate his rationale for why Vincent acted that way. He deflected.........I think we all do that when we are in the "wrong" and not ready to admit it. I know I do that to my husband sometimes. But, Catherine is right to acknowledge what she saw between Vincent and Alex.........and for her own peace of mind, she knows he has some lingering feelings there for Alex......and if he ignores them it won't help THEIR relationship. She is "letting him off the hook".......and at the end he realizes she is right, and he gives Cat that teary look. It still doesn't excuse Vincent for lying and not telling Cat when she asked him about Alex and for calling Cat a "handler". He even looked guilty and hence, why many of us are calling him out as a jerk! I will watch the next episode and give Vincent the benefit of the doubt. But if he acts all giddy and careless with Alex.......he will deserve a verbal smack down from me. This ...
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Post by VinCat❤Destined on Jan 29, 2013 23:06:32 GMT -5
I also think that in the process of making Vincent a JERK he did have some truth to what he was saying...Catherine closes herself to emotions..These feelings for Vincent are strong and she knows it..So she fears getting those emotions getting in her way. I think she PUSHED him away 1. Cause of the feelings she thinks Vince might have towards Alex but 2. and most importantly cause she is afraid of HER OWN FEELINGS towards him!
I think the shrink will make her realize that what she is protecting is HERSELF from being hurt.
Just my two cents cause this scene is all about JERK Vincent ..I'm not saying he's not just saying Catherine herself has issues. LOL
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